DEAR Moni, frankly speaking, if the story you have shared in this column is true, I will counsel you because of your children to open up to him your grievances against him in a respectable and convincing manner. I am sure he will change for better, but if he remains adamant, you can let the cat out of bag to his extended family. Also, let his close associates know about it. However, you can stop feeding him because food energises him to ask for sex frequently. Lastly, be prayerful and your request shall be answered , ATO, 09026522426.